How many times should I follow up with a Founder (long time no contact)?

Ask after you've given them a reason to want to help, not after the first coffee. Send when you have a real trigger: news, a useful artifact, a role change, a season. After that, send a breakup note and archive it. A founder who wants it will answer a clean close more often than a fifth bump.

Should I offer a referral fee in the email?

Only if that's already how you work and it won't make them look mercenary. Many operators prefer a clean intro. If you do mention a fee, keep it secondary to why the intro helps the other person. Name the stall they care about, offer one small next step, and stop before the thread feels like a sequence.

Is it weird to email someone after six months of silence?

Not if you have a new reason and you don't pretend the old thread is still warm. Lead with the trigger, remind them who you are in one line, and make the ask optional. Nostalgia without news is just another cold email with extra steps.

Is it okay to send this referral request on LinkedIn instead of email?

Yes if this founder is actually active there and the thread isn't about long attachments. Keep the LinkedIn version even shorter. Don't paste the full email. One context line and one question is plenty. Name the stall they care about, offer one small next step, and stop before the thread feels like a sequence.

What should I never say in a Media referral request?

Don't promise a viral moment. Promise a clean flight. Calling them a 'decision maker' or pitching like they're a Fortune 500 process. Don't open with 'it's been a while' and then paste the old pitch. Those three mistakes show up constantly in Media inboxes and they all read as "this was templated."

Media · Founder · Long Time No Contact

Referral Request for Media Founder: Long Time No Contact

A referral request email for a Media Founder (long time no contact) is a short message that reopens the thread without making them do extra work. A referral request email asks someone to make an intro by doing the work for them: who, why, and a forwardable blurb. In this setting, that means speaking to flights that stall, brand-safety scares,

Last updated: 2026-09-02 · Reviewed by: Sales Email Template editors

We write templates the way we wrote emails on quota: short, specific, and easy to forward. When we cite research below, it is because the number changes how a buyer reads your note, not to pad the page.

Sources: HubSpot sales email benchmarks; Gong follow-up research

Why does this referral request work for a Media Founder?

Explain why they'd look good for making the intro.
Speaks to flights that stall, brand-safety scares, and follow-up that reads like leftover kit copy instead of a generic "value prop."
Fits how a founder actually reads: Short, vivid, one proof point max.
Bring a new observation about their world, then offer a small, optional next step.
Include a forwardable paragraph.

When should I send this to a Media Founder?

Ask after you've given them a reason to want to help, not after the first coffee. Send when you have a real trigger: news, a useful artifact, a role change, a season. For this combo, treat "Only when you have a trigger" as the default, then adjust around upfronts and flight dates create urgency. random tuesdays don't. If you're emailing a founder, Short, vivid, one proof point max. Tuesday through Thursday mid-morning local time is a safe default.

What this Founder actually cares about

A founder in Media is protecting runway, focus, and the company's early reputation. They context-switch constantly and reply to emails that reduce uncertainty. They can smell a template that was also sent to 400 peers. The hook that earns a look is a problem they personally still own because the team is small. The ask should stay at this size: a yes/no on timing, or a 15-minute working chat. Delete trigger: Calling them a 'decision maker' or pitching like they're a Fortune 500 process. a problem they personally still own because the team is small

How Media changes the note

Media buyers are sales leads and operators selling attention in a market that keeps changing the rules. They can smell leftover media-kit language. Bring delivery math or a sharp audience observation. A credible proof point in this vertical sounds like: rescued two paused IOs by sending a delivery diagnosis instead of another one-pager. Watch the language. Words that land here include IO, flight, brand safety, CPM, makegood, inventory. Buyers here measure success with CPM, fill, and campaign delivery against IO. Buyers here measure success with CPM, fill, and campaign delivery against IO. Buyers here measure success with CPM, fill, and campaign delivery against IO.

How should I customize this template before I send it?

Replace the pain line with a publisher whose advertiser follow-up still leads with 'unique storytelling'.
Keep the tone human and specific.
Never send a referral ask from a brand-new relationship.
Time it for Only when you have a trigger. Send when you have a real trigger: news, a useful artifact, a role change, a season.
Don't promise a viral moment. Promise a clean flight.

What mistakes should I avoid with this long time no contact note?

Asking 'who do you know?' is lazy and gets no names.
Don't open with 'it's been a while' and then paste the old pitch.
Don't promise a viral moment. Promise a clean flight.
Calling them a 'decision maker' or pitching like they're a Fortune 500 process.

How does this long time no contact scenario compare?

Dimension	For this template
Best send window	Only when you have a trigger
Ideal length	Short, vivid, one proof point max.
Primary ask	a yes/no on timing, or a 15-minute working chat
Industry metric to cite	CPM, fill, and campaign delivery against IO
Tone	Human and specific. Peer to peer, not vendor to 'target.'
Unlike no response	This isn't a 4-day bump. It's a re-introduction with a new reason.
Unlike breakup	You're opening a door, not closing one. Still keep it easy to ignore.

What should I copy and send?

Copy-ready template

Subject

Could you intro me to [role] at [Company]?

Body

Hi [First Name],

I'm looking for a warm intro to [specific role] who owns [pain], and you came to mind because [reason].

In Media, that usually shows up as flights that stall, brand-safety scares, and follow-up that reads like leftover kit copy. Ideal person: [role] at a [company type] dealing with flights that stall, brand-safety scares, and follow-up that reads like leftover kit copy. Not trying to spray this across your whole book.

Re-earn a conversation, not restart a stale sequence at email 4.

Comfortable making that intro, or should I find another path?

Best,
[Your Name]
[Your Title]
[Your Company]

Questions people ask before they hit send

Name the situation and the business object, not your excitement. Something like "Could you intro me to [role] at [Company]?" outperforms "Just checking in" because a founder can decide from the preview text whether it's worth opening. Keep it under 50 characters when you can.

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