Should I offer a referral fee in the email?

Only if that's already how you work and it won't make them look mercenary. Many operators prefer a clean intro. If you do mention a fee, keep it secondary to why the intro helps the other person. Name the stall they care about, offer one small next step, and stop before the thread feels like a sequence.

Is it weird to email someone after six months of silence?

Not if you have a new reason and you don't pretend the old thread is still warm. Lead with the trigger, remind them who you are in one line, and make the ask optional. Nostalgia without news is just another cold email with extra steps.

Is it okay to send this referral request on LinkedIn instead of email?

Yes if this sales VP is actually active there and the thread isn't about long attachments. Keep the LinkedIn version even shorter. Don't paste the full email. One context line and one question is plenty. Name the stall they care about, offer one small next step, and stop before the thread feels like a sequence.

What should I never say in a Media referral request?

Don't promise a viral moment. Promise a clean flight. Telling them how to sell. They've heard it. Don't open with 'it's been a while' and then paste the old pitch. Those three mistakes show up constantly in Media inboxes and they all read as "this was templated."

How do I follow up on a stalled media proposal?

Talk about dates, delivery risk, and what happens if they miss the flight. Ask whether brand safety, budget, or creative is the hold. Kit adjectives won't restart a paused IO. Name the stall they care about, offer one small next step, and stop before the thread feels like a sequence.

Media · Sales VP · Long Time No Contact

Referral Request for Media Sales VP: Long Time No Contact

When a Media Sales VP goes quiet (long time no contact), the right referral request email does one job: make a reply cheaper than silence. They think in pipeline, ramp, and forecast risk. If you can't map your email to a number they already report, it feels like a hobby. That's why this template leads with CPM, fill, and campaign

Last updated: 2026-09-02 · Reviewed by: Sales Email Template editors

We write templates the way we wrote emails on quota: short, specific, and easy to forward. When we cite research below, it is because the number changes how a buyer reads your note, not to pad the page.

Sources: HubSpot sales email benchmarks; Gong follow-up research

Why does this referral request work for a Media Sales VP?

Include a forwardable paragraph.
Speaks to flights that stall, brand-safety scares, and follow-up that reads like leftover kit copy instead of a generic "value prop."
Fits how a sales VP actually reads: 70 to 90 words. Lead with the outcome.
Bring a new observation about their world, then offer a small, optional next step.
Explain why they'd look good for making the intro.

When should I send this to a Media Sales VP?

Ask after you've given them a reason to want to help, not after the first coffee. Send when you have a real trigger: news, a useful artifact, a role change, a season. For this combo, treat "Only when you have a trigger" as the default, then adjust around upfronts and flight dates create urgency. random tuesdays don't. If you're emailing a sales VP, 70 to 90 words. Lead with the outcome.

What this Sales VP actually cares about

A sales VP in Media is protecting quota, forecast credibility, and rep time. They think in pipeline, ramp, and forecast risk. If you can't map your email to a number they already report, it feels like a hobby. The hook that earns a look is a stage in the funnel that's leaking, a slow follow-up SLA, or a ramp problem. The ask should stay at this size: a 15-minute look at one metric, not a platform tour. Delete trigger: Telling them how to sell. They've heard it. They protect quota, forecast credibility, and rep time, so keep the ask at "a 15-minute look at one metric, not a platform tour."

How Media changes the note

Media buyers are sales leads and operators selling attention in a market that keeps changing the rules. They can smell leftover media-kit language. Bring delivery math or a sharp audience observation. A credible proof point in this vertical sounds like: rescued two paused IOs by sending a delivery diagnosis instead of another one-pager. Watch the language. Words that land here include IO, flight, brand safety, CPM, makegood, inventory. Buyers here measure success with CPM, fill, and campaign delivery against IO. Buyers here measure success with CPM, fill, and campaign delivery against IO. Proof that lands: rescued two paused IOs by sending a delivery diagnosis instead of another one-pager.

How should I customize this template before I send it?

Replace the pain line with a publisher whose advertiser follow-up still leads with 'unique storytelling'.
Keep the tone crisp and commercial.
Don't attach a commission offer unless that's already your model.
Time it for Only when you have a trigger. Send when you have a real trigger: news, a useful artifact, a role change, a season.
Don't promise a viral moment. Promise a clean flight.

What mistakes should I avoid with this long time no contact note?

Asking 'who do you know?' is lazy and gets no names.
Don't open with 'it's been a while' and then paste the old pitch.
Don't promise a viral moment. Promise a clean flight.
Telling them how to sell. They've heard it.

How does this long time no contact scenario compare?

Dimension	For this template
Best send window	Only when you have a trigger
Ideal length	70 to 90 words. Lead with the outcome.
Primary ask	a 15-minute look at one metric, not a platform tour
Industry metric to cite	CPM, fill, and campaign delivery against IO
Tone	Crisp and commercial. They can handle a direct ask.
Unlike no response	This isn't a 4-day bump. It's a re-introduction with a new reason.
Unlike breakup	You're opening a door, not closing one. Still keep it easy to ignore.

What should I copy and send?

Copy-ready template

Subject

Could you intro me to [role] at [Company]?

Body

Hi [First Name],

I'm looking for a warm intro to [specific role] who owns [pain], and you came to mind because [reason].

I'm writing because an RFP, a missed flight, or a new show / property launch. Blurb you can paste: '[Your Name] helps [audience] with rescued two paused IOs by sending a delivery diagnosis instead of another one-pager. They asked if you'd be open to a short intro about [topic].'

Re-earn a conversation, not restart a stale sequence at email 4.

If you want changes to the blurb, tell me and I'll rewrite it.

Best,
[Your Name]
[Your Title]
[Your Company]

Questions people ask before they hit send

Ask after you've given them a reason to want to help, not after the first coffee. Send when you have a real trigger: news, a useful artifact, a role change, a season. After that, send a breakup note and archive it. A sales VP who wants it will answer a clean close more often than a fifth bump.

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